With classes beginning just around the corner, it is time to start preparing for the new school year. As a military family, there is a chance you moved and your children will be starting the new year in an unfamiliar school. AFBA has compiled some ways you can help them adjust to their new educational environment.
Prepare a routine
Most children thrive on some level of predictability. Before the school year begins, establish a route to the bus stop or school and walk it several times to familiarize them with it. This may help eliminate some of the stress they may experience during their first day. It is also a good idea to get into the practice of getting them to sleep and waking them up like they would on a school day a week or more before the year begins to give them adequate time to adjust.
Orientation is a great resource
If your children's new school holds orientation, you should make a point to attend. This event is an excellent opportunity for your kids to meet the staff of their new school as well as their teachers and some of their classmates. By interacting with these individuals in a more individualized setting, they can connect with them before the hectic first day. It also allows your children to explore the hallways of their new environment and get a visual as to what their school days might look like.
Try to get involved
You are a busy person, but if you can find the time to get involved as a classroom parent or bus monitor, you may help your kids adjust easier. They can look forward to seeing you at some point in the day, and this knowledge may relax them enough to help them find their niche in the new school.
Get to know people in the neighborhood
Make an effort to get to know other families in your neighborhood. Some of the children may be attending the same school as your children, and they might even end up in the same class. By giving your kids a chance to get to know neighbors ahead of time, you may set them up to have friends before their first day. It will also give you peace of mind in knowing that your children will be waiting at the bus stop or walking to school with other kids.
Be ready to listen
During the first couple of weeks, be open to listening to your children's thoughts and opinions regarding their new school. Though you may be tempted to encourage them toward a positive opinion, allow them a few complaints. You can work out a solution for these feelings together after they have settled in. If your children seem to be adapting to the new school without problems, talk with them about their favorite things and inquire about new friendships.
Though transferring schools is difficult for children, it does not have to be a completely miserable experience for them. There are steps you can take to help make the adjustment a little easier and less intimidating. Just remember to remain sensitive to the emotions your children may experience during this transitional phase in their lives.