Life can be stressful for military families. Long separations make it difficult on parents and kids alike. However, when the family is together again, a vacation can be the perfect way to reconnect and relax. The examples below are just a few of the many places that offer great vacation packages for military service members.
San Diego, California
This city is an amazing blend of landscapes. San Diego has beaches, mountains and deserts. Its mild climate and friendly reputation make it a great vacation destination for anyone. San Diego's reputation for supporting the armed forces make it an even better place for military families to visit. Military members receive free admission to certain attractions such as the San Diego Zoo, Balboa Park and the San Diego History Center. Families of active duty military get discounts to these locations as well.
Active Heroes Military Family Retreat Center
The camp is located in Shepherdsville, Kentucky. The Active Heroes Military Family Retreat Center was designed by military families to help promote bonding and healing. It is free for military families to come for the weekend and participate in archery, cookouts, camping and more.
Universal Studios
This theme park is known for taking visitors on an adventure through film-making history. There are plenty of rides and activities to keep the whole family entertained, and the best part of the Universal Studios is that it offers military discounts at both its Los Angeles and Orlando locations.
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
As home to an air force base, Myrtle Beach has no shortage of patriotism. Military members and their families can relax on the city's 60 miles of beaches or engage in a little friendly competition at one of the 100 golf courses. Many hotels, attractions and restaurants in the area offer military discounts.
Camp Noble Cause
Tucked away in the wilderness of Rockaway, New Jersey, this camp gives military families the chance to boat, fish, swim, camp, hike and engage in many more outdoor activities. The Boy Scouts of America and the Patriots' Path Council offer their camp to military members and their families at no cost. Camp Noble Cause takes place one weekend every year and provides the ideal setting for military family bonding.
Disneyland or Disney World
What better place to take the family on vacation than the Happiest Place on Earth? Disney theme parks are an excellent way to make memories with your kids. Both of the parks offer military family discount packages. They even allow military spouses to use the discount without the military member being present.
SeaWorld Parks and Entertainment
Has your family been begging you to visit Shamu or pet a sea turtle? It may be the right time to take them to SeaWorld or Busch Gardens. Both parks grant military members and up to three dependents free admission. Just like the Disney parks, SeaWorld allows military spouses free admission without the presence of the military member.
Camp Gratitude
This week-long getaway is free for military members and their families. The camp was started as a way of expressing appreciation for the service of military members. Camp Gratitude offers activities throughout the week that promote bonding, relaxation and healing. Many of the activities are designed to help veterans or members who have experienced deployment cope with any issues they may have.
Vacations are an important part of family bonding and memory-making. They are a perfect time to get to know each other again after a deployment and can even help alleviate some of the emotional trauma military members may have experienced in combat. Before booking a trip, remember to scout around for place that support military families. There are plenty of destinations around the country that offer deals and discounts to service members and their families.
It is not every day that one sees scantily clad military members hiking together, but residents of San Diego, California, were treated to just such a sight on July 25. More than 50 active duty service members and veterans banded together for a 13-mile walk from the Mission Beach jetty to La Jolla cove. The hikers, all shirtless and in short shorts, were part of an event called "22, with 22, for the 22" during which they walked 22 kilometers carrying 22 kilograms to raise awareness for the 22 veterans that commit suicide each day.
The founders of the beach hike are a veterans' group called Irreverent Warriors. Their mission is to help veterans out of their depression and anxiety through humor. They hope their hike does more than raise awareness to veteran suicide. They want struggling veterans to recognize that there are support groups available if only they reach out.
Retired Marine and Irreverent Warriors co-founder Donny O'Malley told Take Action, "If I can get guys together, and if I can inspire little Irreverent Warriors groups to start popping up across the country, then [veterans] who are alone and lonely and in a dark place will feel supported and loved."
O'Malley's Irreverent Warriors inspired a second hike on Aug. 1, in Houston, Texas.
Scott LoBaido is not a veteran, but he is a patriot in every sense of the word. The 50-year-old artist is well known for using his creative talents to support the servicemembers who protect the country. In 2006, LoBaido embarked on a 10-month cross-country tour during which he painted the American flag on a rooftop in every state. In 2010, LoBaido set a recorded by painting the world's largest American flag near Hobby Airport in Houston, Texas.
LoBaido's latest undertaking is called the Fifty State Tour. Once again, he plans to visit all 50 states in the U.S. This time, however, LoBaido will be painting one of his famous renditions of the American flag on a VFW or American Legion post in every state. LoBaido always wanted his art to express gratitude for the service of American military members and veterans and is using this tour as a way to say thanks.
"I became fascinated with preserving the symbols of the countless brave Americans who stood, fought, marched, and sacrificed so much for our livelihood," he said on his personal website.
Every VFW or American Legion gets a different version of the painted flag, and it takes the artist about two to three days to finish each one. As of July 22, LoBaido had completed 40 of the 50 flags and was on schedule to complete his tour by August 2015.
After serving two tours in Afghanistan with the British military, Prince Harry was searching for a way to help combat veterans who were injured during their service. In 2014, he came up with the idea to host a sporting event to benefit wounded veterans and their families. The prince called his brainchild The Invictus Games, a name inspired by the poem of William Ernest Henley. The name was meant to convey an "indomitable spirit" in the face of adversity, and the games' slogan, "I am the master of my fate," is a direct line from Henley's poem. The inaugural competition was held in London at Queen Elizabeth Olympic Park. According to the Invictus Foundation, the 2014 games brought together "over 400 competitors from 13 nations around the world."
Prince Harry believed that sport and competition would help the wounded servicemembers heal and find purpose in life after service. Recently, the prince proudly announced that the Invictus Games would be returning for a second event. The 2016 games are set to take place May 8-12, at the ESPN Wide World of Sports Complex at the Walt Disney World Resort in Lake Buena Vista, Florida.
After an improvised explosive device blew off Toran Gaal's legs on June 26, 2011, the former Marine tried to stay positive. The accident sent him through 55 surgeries and cost him some of his memory, but he refused to give up on making a good life after service. Gaal's whole goal was to remember that there is a purpose to every life. That was when he developed a plan to ride across the U.S. on his handcycle. Gaal started his journey in San Diego on June 1. He has crossed most of the country and is currently in Virginia, just a little over 100 miles from his final destination at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in Arlington Cemetery.
The total distance of Gaal's trip was 3,800 miles through all types of weather and personal struggle. Despite the challenge of the mission, Gaal never lost heart.
"The only limits in life are the ones we set on ourselves," he said to the Sun Herald.
During his travels, the veteran is raising money for the Semper Fi Fund, an organization that assists family members of wounded Marines. This was the organization that gave Gaal his first handcycle and started him on the path to healing. When his journey is finished, Gaal hopes to start a career as a professional public speaker. He wants to share his experiences and help others find their own strength.
It is a widely known fact that life after service can be difficult. This was especially true for Marine Captain C.J. Keller. The New Jersey native returned from Iraq in 2008, but his homecoming was a difficult one. Keller struggled with reentry into civilian life and experienced post-traumatic stress disorder. After realizing that his coping mechanisms were more detrimental than they were helpful, Keller, who is a self-proclaimed gym rat, tried yoga for the first time. The new activity gave the former Marine time to process everything he had been through and reconnect with himself.
"Yoga gives you the tools [to cope]. It empowers you to be present with what is," he told CBS.
After yoga saved his life, Keller decided to share the healing with others. He got his yoga instructor certification and now offers free yoga classes to veterans and their families twice a week. Some of the veterans who have already participated said that Keller's classes were monumental in their healing and reintegration. Instead of charging for his sessions, Keller asks for a donation to Active Heroes, which is a nonprofit organization with the mission to provide PTSD help to veterans and end military suicides.
Many combat veterans struggle with their return to civilian life after service. In fact, the Department of Veterans Affairs stated that around 11 to 20 percent of veterans experience post-traumatic stress disorder. However, former U.S. Marine Tank Commander Sean Gobin may have found a solution. Gobin's own combat experience was difficult, and upon his departure from the military in 2012, he found it hard to process everything he had gone through. In hopes of clearing his head, Gobin and another military friend decided to hike the Appalachian Trail and raise money for disabled veterans along the way.
The pair hiked the 2,168-mile trail for eight hours a day, and Gobin said the challenging experience gave him time to work through his military experience. He decided to share this healing process with other combat veterans when he founded Warrior Hike. The nonprofit supplies returned military personnel with the supplies and equipment needed for hikes ranging from two to six months all across the country. Gobin told CNN that "hiking is like a reset button. It helps you become a civilian again." Thus far, Gobin and his nonprofit have helped over 70 veterans, and it is their hope that these numbers continue to grow.
Deployment can be very challenging for couples. It may be the first time you have ever been separated for a long period, while the risks involved in active duty service may also stress you out if you are not actively working to remain positive. The process is a journey that should be handled carefully with support.
Whether your spouse is currently deployed or is going to be soon, take note of these tips to make sure that you are mentally prepared when the time comes.
1. Realize communication may be hard
Although it is a difficult realization to get used to, it is always best to be realistic and accept that communication is going to be challenging during deployment. According to Military Spouse, while it can be tempting to tell yourself that you will talk for as long as you want every day, it is important to remember that servicemembers have to prioritize the demands placed on them during active service. Your spouse may not have the opportunity to talk on the phone or video chat when you planned to.
Prepare for this by performing tasks like writing down all of the moments or events that you want to share with your loved one when time allows. Active duty servicemembers should feel that things at home are going smoothly so that they can focus on their missions. Letting your husband or wife know that you are coping well during days without communication will be reassuring.
2. Familiarize yourself with the facts
Before and during your spouse's departure, take some time to educate yourself on where your loved one will be deployed and what his or her specific role requires. This will allow you to have a better understanding of what your spouse is doing every day and the experiences he or she may face.
You will probably have a lot to tell your spouse on the phone, such as how the children are doing in school and how his or her friends are. However, knowing a little about your loved one's whereabouts and duties can provide you with specific questions to ask so he or she has an opportunity to share experiences with someone who is familiar with his or her role.
3. Seek out support
Getting through a deployment on your own can seem impossible at times. Use the love and support of family members and friends to stay strong and positive. Join a local group, such as a running or book club, with your friends to keep busy during the day if you do not have a job. Doing something that interests you every day will help you maintain an optimistic outlook when times are tough.
Spending time with fellow military spouses is another good idea. If you live on base, there may even be a support group where you can meet other men and women also trying to get through deployment. Talking to people who are experiencing similar emotions and challenges can be comforting and give you the strength you need.
4. Stay connected
You may not be able to communicate with your loved one as much as you would like to, but you can still stay connected. For example, TwoOfUs.org explained that sending frequent care packages that contain your spouse's favorite food, pictures, videos and handwritten notes will ensure that you are sending your love when you can. You can also get creative and focus on the future with gifts like "coupons" that award your spouse with something during life after service, such as a hug from one of your children or a romantic dinner with his or her favorite meal.
Fans of the television show "Modern Family" probably don't think of family patriarch Jay Pritchett first and foremost as a veteran. Occasionally the character will mention his time in the Navy and how it shaped him, but for the most part he is your typical American man who loves his family and works hard to grow his business. It is this portrayal that won the television show accreditation from Got Your 6.
The organization, which works to integrate more accurate images of veterans into the media, recognized six programs for their commitment to accurate portrayals of former members of the military, the Washington Post reported. This is the first of what the nonprofit hopes will be many rounds of accreditations.
To be "6 Certified," a movie or TV show must contain a balanced and representative depiction of veterans, Got Your 6 reported. It must also fulfill one of six actions:
- Consult with a veteran, family member or expert to create an accurate representation.
- Cast a veteran in a significant role.
- Create a veteran character that is multidimensional.
- Hire a veteran writer to work on the script.
- Develop a meaningful narrative that accurately tells a veteran story.
- Have a veteran present during the filming process to ensure accuracy.
There are many ways that veterans can help other vets outside of the media.
The other films and shows recognized this month were the eclectic mix of box office hit "American Sniper," "Amira and Sam," "Hawaii Five-O," NBC's "The Night Shift" and the 20th season of "Dancing with the Stars" that featured wounded warrior Noah Galloway.
The certification campaign is a response to a Got Your 6 survey in 2014 that revealed that most veteran characters in the media are portrayed as both heroic and damaged, an impression that affected how the American public viewed military members in their life after service.
On June 19 and 20, NASCAR fans enjoyed the races while bringing hope to military families and veterans in their area.
The nonprofit organization Hope For The Warriors had booths at the Iowa Speedway during the weekend with special time both days where fans could assemble care packages, the Newton Daily News reported. The packages will be distributed to veterans and military families who live in the Greater Newton area.
It's easy to make your own care package to send to a deployed soldier.
"It's really about giving back to the people of Iowa," Hope For The Warriors Senior Director of Sports and Recreation Travis Hanson told the Newton Daily News. "The entire Midwest region, Iowa included, has shown tremendous support for Hope For The Warriors over the last 10 years, but it seems it's a rarity that they're championed for their efforts."
According to the organization's website, Hope For The Warriors aims to help current and former military members succeed at home by helping to restore their sense of family, self and hope. They provide comprehensive programs that focus on transitioning, engaging with peers, taking advantage of community resources and improving health and wellness.The nonprofit has opportunities for servicemembers, veterans and their families at every NASCAR race this season.